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There is a sexy boy in my school and i like him but people don’t. How can i ask him out with out people knowing?

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months now. There are a few people that have said that you can tell you conceived right after having sex with your partner. If this is the case, I’d like to know how so I can fill my boyfriend in on it when it does happen.

A woman whose lover doesn’t make her feel beautiful – or worse, one who hints that if only she had bigger breasts, smaller hips and plumper lips, then things might be so much better – has three choices . . . fight, flight or go under the knife.
While it would be nice to think that fight or flight would be by far the most popular reactions, the reality is that, despite the risks, Irish women are increasingly opting for surgery in search of luscious curves.
Five years ago, 450 women had breast augmentation procedures at Advanced Cosmetic Surgery (ACS) clinics throughout the country. Last year, that figure rose by 300, confirming the suspicion that tacit man-pleasing is here to stay and that women are getting seriously cut-up over it.
Take Julie (not her real name): she had a boob job last Christmas at the behest of her picky partner and was delighted both with the result and the fact that her man seemed satisfied at last.
However, during the course of their first post-surgery row, on New Year’s Eve, he called her ‘Mrs Frankenstein’. It was the scars, you see – he found them aesthetically displeasing.
Many Celebs are admitting that they regret having surgery – .
But while it’s all too easy to blame the guys, it isn’t always fair to do so. According to counselling psychologists many men who buy cosmetic surgery vouchers for their partners are not acting selfishly but are genuinely trying to please them.
“Men are problem solvers,” she says “If they believe their partners genuinely don’t like their bodies, they will try to fix the problem. They do this, often without realising that all that may have been required of them was to listen and reassure.
“That said, the ‘because I’m worth it’ mentality is increasingly taking hold among women, along with the feeling of empowerment to do whatever it takes to improve body satisfaction.”
While you would imagine that at least part of the motivation for having a boob job would be to become more sexually attractive, surprisingly, none of the women asked as to why they wanted to have it done would admit to that. In fact, every one of them protested that their only motivation was to please themselves.
So there you have it: women want to look better and they’re doing whatever it takes to achieve this. But while nobody would deny the obvious attractions of a curvaceous figure, the question is, does it matter to men whether a woman’s assets are natural or acquired?
To find out, we decided to ask some men. This is what they said…

Alan “The day is gone when women who have had cosmetic surgery are perceived as being in some way freakish, outlandish, or even insane. For me, knowing that a woman with terrific cleavage has had a job done, is in no way a turn off, but having said that, I’ve never encountered it in a woman, to be best of my knowledge anyway.
“I don’t think that natural is necessarily better, it’s a matter of whatever makes the woman happy and confident. We guys don’t care whether it was Pilates or surgery which was responsible for a woman’s great figure – we just appreciate that she looks great.”
“There’s an old saying which still stands true: ‘It’s not the face, nor the figure, but the fascinating nature, that matters.’ I notice personality rather than looks and prefer when nature is allowed to take its course. I wouldn’t like to think that cosmetic surgery would ever become commonplace.”
Joe: “If I knew that a woman’s assets weren’t natural, I’d find it weird and off-putting, as those who have boob implants aren’t 100% human – they’re 1% silicone at least! However, if surgery raises a woman’s self-esteem and makes her feel great, that’s fine, provided she doesn’t end up looking like Joyce Wildenstein who in my opinion, look like A surgeons’ punch bag.”
Keith: “There’s a perception that only bimbos get boob jobs, which isn’t true – lots of intelligent and interesting women do too. For me, it wouldn’t matter at all whether a woman was surgically enhanced, once she looked and felt great, and more importantly was someone with whom I could have a conversation about Iraq
Craig Solicitor “If women are doing it to please men, they should remember that no guy would settle down with someone simply because of her big breasts. She would need to be stimulating intellectually as well as physically if the couple are to become mates – unless of course the guy has zero interest in her personality and wants her only for her body. For me though, corny as it may sound, it’s what a woman’s like inside that counts.”

Brian Actor “I can’t stand the appearance of scrawny women, but still, the idea of cosmetic enhancement doesn’t appeal.”

Simon TV Star “Personally, it’s not something I’d like, but professionally, I know that it can make a positive difference to the lives of actresses, for whom appearance is important.”

Rodge barman “I’ve always been a fan of natural boobs, like the enormous ones on Toni the Exotic Dancer. But when you’re my age, you don’t care if they’re full of milk or plastic – once I can get a look and a squeeze, I’m a happy man.”

Jeff Doorman “Since most of my long-term relationships have been with blow-up women, I’ve become quite accustomed to the joys of the enhanced boob. Mind you, with the amount of plastic surgery these days, it’s always a nice surprise to press the flesh whenever I get the chance.”
Joe hairdresser
“I think it’s trite to have surgery for cosmetic reasons only. It offers no more than a Band-Aid solution to larger emotional issues which probably need to be addressed. I would say ‘go natural, baby,’ as enhanced curves are something I could never take seriously.”
Stuart Nurse “Natural is probably better, but that said, cosmetically enhanced curves aren’t a turn-off, considering most sexual activity takes place in the dark anyway
Ian entrepreneur
“As far as I know I’ve never encountered surgically enhanced curves, but I’ve no objection to cosmetic surgery and wouldn’t be put off merely because someone had had it done. That said, I wouldn’t fancy going out with a woman who had a gargantuan Double Z figure – I think most men would be intimidated by that. Anyway, personality and connectivity are more important to me than looks.
“I was at a bar recently, in mixed company, when a crowd of obviously enhanced jet-blondes walked in. The women I was with hissed, while the men merely stared. Nobody approached or spoke to the enhanced. So while it gets women noticed, it wouldn’t lead to a long-term relationship if there wasn’t personality there too.”
Cath broadcaster.
“The thought of women opting for implants and having their bodies mutilated in the process, without good reason, makes me very uncomfortable. For me, natural is better, as unnecessary cosmetic surgery makes me squeamish and uneasy. When I see photos of Jordan, I think that while her face is pretty – from the breasts down, she looks sad.
“It’s a pity so many women believe that men rate them according to the size of their breasts. After all, men appreciate their beauty, no matter what the size.”
‘I was always very self-conscious about my lack of cleavage’
Mandy student nurse (30) and husband, Darren
“I had a breast augmentation procedure because I was flat-chested and there were tops, bikinis and dresses I wanted to wear but hadn’t the breasts to fill. Also, my sisters and friends had great curves and while they never commented, I was always very self-conscious about my lack of cleavage,” says 30-year-old Mandy
“It took me a long time to get around to having the operation done. Fear and money stopped me. Then two years ago I decided that it was time to be brave and to go for what I really wanted. So I got the money together and had the job done.
“When it was over, I was thrilled to bits. The team at Advanced Cosmetic Surgery were great, so if there’s anything else I want done in the future, I wouldn’t be afraid to go back there.
“My husband told me that I didn’t need to do it, but to be honest, had he asked me to do it for him, I definitely wouldn’t have – I’d have rebelled. It might sound like a cliche, but it isn’t at all when I say that I had the surgery for me and me alone. He sees the benefit of it, which is great, but more important is the way it makes me feel about myself. It’s been fantastic.”
Darren: “Mandys self-esteem rose after she had the work done. We’d been together 10 years before she had surgery, and I didn’t want her to change, as I loved her as she was. I never asked her to have it done or put her under any pressure. But I knew she was determined to do it, so I supported her in her decision. Now though, she’s got what she wants and because she’s happy, I’m happy. But at the end of the day, all that really matters is that we’re healthy and content with each other, and we are.”

Imjust wnat to know as many differant women’s fantasies as possible, don’t be bashfull. I just wnat to know, even if it’s weird , or especially if its just thinking of love. Personally I usually think of intimate love making but sometime I just think of sex.

I’ve seen so many girls on here asking “could I be pregnant”, “can you get pregnant if…”.
I just don’t understand why there are sex ed programs starting in 6th-7th grade and girls do not understand that anytime you have sexual intercourse no matter what there is always a possibility. Does anyone else find this crazy?

This article attempts to explore the world of male fantasy and the functions it serves.

Most men will tell you that the one thing they fantasise about the most is about receiving good head /blowjob and that nothing in the world feels better if done properly.

So how do you give good head?

.The problem is with the word “good” Most women aren’t that good. They have problems connecting with their man on a deeper level. They don’t get the essence of a good head job .A common mistake is being un-emotional. Men don’t want to look at a bored “working face”when getting head. They want a happy smiling face .They want to know that you are enjoying it as much or even more than he is but “ I’m not enjoying it,I’m doing it cos he likes it” is an attitude that wont get you far. You shouldn’t be doing it for him,Try doing it for yourself .Unfortunately you wont understand how powerful a good head job can be ,until you can become great at it. Once you know how to give good head,all doors are open for you. Men are simple and easy .Become his fantasy,and learn to control his emotions. Its all about pinching his senses .Many of you think its about a certain special technique. well its not .Techniques help but are useless without the right attitude. Try connecting with him on a deeper level when giving him head,try making it a fun experience and not some “job” .

Fear can hold you back,it can get into your head .You suddenly start asking questions.”Does he like it”,Am I doing it right?” “ Why hasn’t he reached orgasm yet?.I’ll just give you one tip” .Stop thinking. Yes that’s what I said. Get out of your head when giving head. You need to be there in the moment-giving him head with PASSION .If you don’t have the love and passion in your eyes -then it just cant be the same. Of course you can give him an okay bj without being passionate-but by having the right mind state that blowjob will truly BLOW him away. Like literally .He’ll have a permanent smile on his face. And one more blowjob tip -talk dirty to him while giving him a head job.

Spice is nice

Contrary to many religious beliefs ,most psychologists will tell you that there is nothing wrong with having any particular fantasy .Fantasies are considered a key to our inner life and can hold valuable clues that we might need to heed. Having fantasies doesn’t keep most people from enjoying the real sexual contact that they do have. Quite the contrary,fantasies often add the needed spice to keep a sexual life going strong. Men’s sexual arousal is usually easy and men buy visual pornography because they need some mechanism (in the absence of the real thing) in order to release the sexual frustration caused by their daily arousal.”After thinking about sex every six seconds for six days,men are beginning to need to do something about it.”(p15 Bluffers Guide to Men1998)

Younger men can make do with masturbation for some days but eventually (usually by the weekend ) they want to engage on some real action. If men were happy to use masturbation indefinitely as a substitute for sex then there would be a chance that the human race could die out. It also makes sense that men may find thrusting during penetrative sex the most satisfying way of releasing their emotions simply because nature intended it to be that way

Men’s sexual fantasies map on to reality more easily than women’s

Perhaps it is worth stating the obvious that men do not reach orgasm simply through looking at images of the female form .In their minds they also need to contemplate what they would like to be doing with a sexual partner
Men have a much easier time than typically women do of transferring orgasm techniques to sex with a partner .On the physical side the vagina may not grip the penis as firmly as a hand but the penis is still stimulated .Equally men’s sexual fantasy map slips fairly easily into a real-life sexual encounter. Instead of looking at pictures of naked women a man now has the real thing in front of him

Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men. Initially the turn- on of a new sexual partner is enough for a man to reach orgasm without any further assistance .However over time men also use sexual fantasies to help them through more routine sex with a partner by visualising more adventurous sex episodes.
When the subject of bedroom boredom arises Any good psychotherapist will ask people to open their eyes and look to introducing a little variety into their lovemaking and being more sexually adventurous They will be helped to talk about their fantasies to each other .Fantasies in general appear to serve many functions from getting started to getting finished. Sexologists report sexual fantasies before during and after a sensual encounter are normal ,natural and have proved helpful in changing a routine experience into a new and exciting event.

A recent poll has found that 54% of British men have sexual fantasies about nurses .In fact no other profession hit the 50% mark for male fantasisers.. Listed below are more male fantasies listed in order of priority. Don’t expect to be remotely surprised by the following but equally you shouldn’t feel threatened.”In the main, such fantasies are harmless recreation as if your man were to genuinely find himself on a south pacific island surrounded by a dozen nymphettes desperate for his body,he’d be on the first boat home .Really?

Double helpings: A classic position-sandwiched between two women intent on his pleasure