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This article attempts to explore the world of male fantasy and the functions it serves.

Most men will tell you that the one thing they fantasise about the most is about receiving good head /blowjob and that nothing in the world feels better if done properly.

So how do you give good head?

.The problem is with the word “good” Most women aren’t that good. They have problems connecting with their man on a deeper level. They don’t get the essence of a good head job .A common mistake is being un-emotional. Men don’t want to look at a bored “working face”when getting head. They want a happy smiling face .They want to know that you are enjoying it as much or even more than he is but “ I’m not enjoying it,I’m doing it cos he likes it” is an attitude that wont get you far. You shouldn’t be doing it for him,Try doing it for yourself .Unfortunately you wont understand how powerful a good head job can be ,until you can become great at it. Once you know how to give good head,all doors are open for you. Men are simple and easy .Become his fantasy,and learn to control his emotions. Its all about pinching his senses .Many of you think its about a certain special technique. well its not .Techniques help but are useless without the right attitude. Try connecting with him on a deeper level when giving him head,try making it a fun experience and not some “job” .

Fear can hold you back,it can get into your head .You suddenly start asking questions.”Does he like it”,Am I doing it right?” “ Why hasn’t he reached orgasm yet?.I’ll just give you one tip” .Stop thinking. Yes that’s what I said. Get out of your head when giving head. You need to be there in the moment-giving him head with PASSION .If you don’t have the love and passion in your eyes -then it just cant be the same. Of course you can give him an okay bj without being passionate-but by having the right mind state that blowjob will truly BLOW him away. Like literally .He’ll have a permanent smile on his face. And one more blowjob tip -talk dirty to him while giving him a head job.

Spice is nice

Contrary to many religious beliefs ,most psychologists will tell you that there is nothing wrong with having any particular fantasy .Fantasies are considered a key to our inner life and can hold valuable clues that we might need to heed. Having fantasies doesn’t keep most people from enjoying the real sexual contact that they do have. Quite the contrary,fantasies often add the needed spice to keep a sexual life going strong. Men’s sexual arousal is usually easy and men buy visual pornography because they need some mechanism (in the absence of the real thing) in order to release the sexual frustration caused by their daily arousal.”After thinking about sex every six seconds for six days,men are beginning to need to do something about it.”(p15 Bluffers Guide to Men1998)

Younger men can make do with masturbation for some days but eventually (usually by the weekend ) they want to engage on some real action. If men were happy to use masturbation indefinitely as a substitute for sex then there would be a chance that the human race could die out. It also makes sense that men may find thrusting during penetrative sex the most satisfying way of releasing their emotions simply because nature intended it to be that way

Men’s sexual fantasies map on to reality more easily than women’s

Perhaps it is worth stating the obvious that men do not reach orgasm simply through looking at images of the female form .In their minds they also need to contemplate what they would like to be doing with a sexual partner
Men have a much easier time than typically women do of transferring orgasm techniques to sex with a partner .On the physical side the vagina may not grip the penis as firmly as a hand but the penis is still stimulated .Equally men’s sexual fantasy map slips fairly easily into a real-life sexual encounter. Instead of looking at pictures of naked women a man now has the real thing in front of him

Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men. Initially the turn- on of a new sexual partner is enough for a man to reach orgasm without any further assistance .However over time men also use sexual fantasies to help them through more routine sex with a partner by visualising more adventurous sex episodes.
When the subject of bedroom boredom arises Any good psychotherapist will ask people to open their eyes and look to introducing a little variety into their lovemaking and being more sexually adventurous They will be helped to talk about their fantasies to each other .Fantasies in general appear to serve many functions from getting started to getting finished. Sexologists report sexual fantasies before during and after a sensual encounter are normal ,natural and have proved helpful in changing a routine experience into a new and exciting event.

A recent poll has found that 54% of British men have sexual fantasies about nurses .In fact no other profession hit the 50% mark for male fantasisers.. Listed below are more male fantasies listed in order of priority. Don’t expect to be remotely surprised by the following but equally you shouldn’t feel threatened.”In the main, such fantasies are harmless recreation as if your man were to genuinely find himself on a south pacific island surrounded by a dozen nymphettes desperate for his body,he’d be on the first boat home .Really?

Double helpings: A classic position-sandwiched between two women intent on his pleasure